Have you ever wonder what a woman looks for in men ????

Smart,handsome,talent,kind,helpful.....If you ask me, I will ask you does he has US $ millions in the bank and do I have a share....

Girls, tell me what do you look for in men ???

Interesting question, that. What would I look for in a man?

Money is important though it does not top the list. $$$ is a neccessity and one can't live on romance alone these days. No $ = no home, no amenities, no food, no enjoyment, no security and the list go on. That will be akin to living off the streets, no?? However, as men deem themselves as HEADs of the family, it's only natural and fair that they take care of the bills and such, right ladies? HURRAH!

I will ask for these qualities:
A matured man who feels secure about himself so that he will not be unreasonably jealous.
Kindness is a must cos he will treat others with love and respect.
One who can carry an intelligent conversation because it is food for the brain.
He must has a sense of humor so that there is laughter in the home.
And most important, he must love, cherish and spoil me rotten!

Is that enough? No worries, I will think of some more and be sure to let you know....

i think if for woman looking for a man, then man must be able to protect the woman, caring, understanding the woman needs, forgive all the wrong thing dat the woman made and so on ...
is easy to say " i love this girl , i love that guy ", but once u are living together there are a lot of thing might happen, is not fight for win, is need for caring and forgive .

Gabriel cannot forgive all the wrongs of the woman. May be minor wrongs......only

Gabriel wrote:i think if for woman looking for a man, then man must be able to protect the woman, caring, understanding the woman needs, forgive all the wrong thing dat the woman made and so on ...

Gabriel...same as from a woman perception, even if we really love that person but we still can't forgive all the wrong things that our love one have done.

What do I look for in men?
From my opinion, as long as that guy love me, caring, hardly hurt me and can protect me anytime then it will be no problem for me.

I just like most women, dreamed that one day my Prince Charming would come along and he would sweep me off my feet, and live happily ever after. But, how can I found the actual man of my dreams?
For me, My Dream Man has to be confidence, sense of Humor, Intelligence, sensitivity (caring, loving, thoughtful, sweet, romantic), respectful but the most important is loves me for who I am, not what I have.

Hmh..

The Good:
-1/3 Kiddy, 2/3 Matured
-Responsible
-Honest
-Loving
-Can cook
-Has a stable job
-Handsome (big bonus!)
-Respect his parents and mine
-Book smart and street smart
-Funny
-Protective
-money saver but not stingy
-Trust me to trust him
-Faithful
-Romantic
-Patient
-A realistic future planner
-Laugh with me when i'm happy and cry with me when i'm sad

etc etc etc etc etc ..... but no one is perfect so here goes the devil list:

Type of men that i hate:
-hot tempered
-very pushy
-demanding

and etc etc too

My dream man ar.. Hmm.. As long as he loves me, care about me, trust me, can make me laugh and good looking it will be ok already. I wont demand for more because there's no perfect man in this world. U only can find it in Fairy Tales.

Olivia wrote:My dream man ar.. Hmm.. As long as he loves me, care about me, trust me, can make me laugh and good looking it will be ok already. I wont demand for more because there's no perfect man in this world. U only can find it in Fairy Tales.

we can create our own fairy tales

Jennie, how do we create?We not take movie le!

Wei Ling wrote:Jennie, how do we create?We not take movie le!

Haha! No need to take movie lesson. Life itself is a drama, we are the actors. How you want it to end, all depends on you.

Some people say love sucks and they don't need a man in their life as they have friends and family to be with but trust me, there will be times when you're alone, you'll feel that something is missing in your life.

Everything comes in pair: our eyes, upper lip - lower lip, left nostril - right nostril, etc but why do we have only 1 heart? To find the other heart that lies in your better half, which is somewhere out there.

So, Wei Ling... start hunting!

P/s: I remember a story told by my friend. His grandparents are thousands of feet above ground (on the plane) and his grandpa kissed his grandma saying, "this is the first time i kiss you between heaven and earth" ..very sweet

got money
like a dog


just kidding

What Women Want in a Man, Original List (age 22)
1. Handsome
2. Charming
3. Financially successful
4. A caring listener
5. Witty
6. In good shape
7. Dresses with style
8. Appreciates finer things
9. Full of thoughtful surprises
10. An imaginative, romantic lover
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What Women Want in a Man, Revised List (age 32)
1. Nice looking (prefer hair on his head)
2. Opens car doors, holds chairs
3. Has enough money for a nice dinner
4. Listens more than talks
5. Laughs at my jokes
6. Carries bags of groceries with ease
7. Owns at least one tie
8. Appreciates a good home-cooked meal
9. Remembers birthdays and anniversaries
10. Seeks romance at least once a week
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What Women Want in a Man, Revised List (age 42)
1. Not too ugly (bald head OK)
2. Doesn't drive off until I'm in the car
3. Works steady - splurges on dinner out occasionally
4. Nods head when I'm talking
5. Usually remembers punch lines of jokes
6. Is in good enough shape to rearrange the furniture
7. Wears a shirt that covers his stomach
8. Knows not to buy champagne with screw-top lids
9. Remembers to put the toilet seat down
10. Shaves most weekends
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What Women Want in a Man, Revised List (age 52)
1. Keeps hair in nose and ears trimmed
2. Doesn't belch or scratch in public
3. Doesn't borrow money too often
4. Doesn't nod off to sleep when I'm venting
5. Doesn't re-tell the same joke too many times
6. Is in good enough shape to get off couch on weekends
7. Usually wears matching socks and fresh underwear
8. Appreciates a good TV dinner
9. Remembers your name on occasion
10. Shaves some weekends
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What Women Want in a Man, Revised List (age 62)
1. Doesn't scare small children
2. Remembers where bathroom is
3. Doesn't require much money for upkeep
4. Only snores lightly when asleep
5. Remembers why he's laughing
6. Is in good enough shape to stand up by himself
7. Usually wears some clothes
8. Likes soft foods
9. Remembers where he left his teeth
10. Remembers that it's the weekend
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What Women Want in a Man, Revised List (age 72)
1. BREATHING
2. Doesn't miss the toilet

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Jennie wrote:What Women Want in a Man, Original List (age 22)
1. Handsome
2. Charming
3. Financially successful
4. A caring listener
5. Witty
6. In good shape
7. Dresses with style
8. Appreciates finer things
9. Full of thoughtful surprises
10. An imaginative, romantic lover

Haha... BINGO!!! Exactly..... My Prince Charming!!!

What Women Want in a Man,
1. mature
2. understanding
3. of course must be nice looking
4. knowing how to dress up
5. have talent in music
6. order then me 2 years and above
7. hardworking
8. secure
9. no smoking too